A midlife crisis, usually between the ages of forty and sixty, is a period of inner turmoil and self-reflection. This transition can be emotionally challenging, with feelings of anxiety, self-doubt, dissatisfaction, and a desire for significant life changes. Shoes That Fit Her Soul program and its tools guide readers on a path of personal growth as they wrestle with their identity and who they’ve become.
Do you find yourself grappling with any of these questions?
Who am I?
Is this it? Am I really living the life I want?
Your children are growing more independent, leaving you wondering, Now what?
Has your daily routine been reduced to tasks and screens, with little space for joy, depth, or real connection?
Are you craving something more —more meaning, more courage, more of you in your own life?
What might happen if you finally turned toward yourself and asked, what truly fulfills me now?
A midlife crisis can pose many challenges, but if reframed, it can become a midlife awakening.
Book
Reflecting on some of her life’s pivotal moments, Shamayne Olivia draws from her
insights and lessons to offer an authentic approach for women to embrace midlife and foster a renewed sense of self, passion, purpose, and confidence.
“The thought that my life might be half over at forty was strange because I still had so much I wanted to accomplish. I had regrets, too. I thought all this time had been wasted just getting through life. I wanted to get unstuck and live unburdened from the past and find meaning in my life, but how?”
– Shamayne Olivia
In this book and its companion workbook, Shamayne will reflect on some of her most significant transitions, including becoming a parent, entering midlife with a broken marriage, facing losses and grief, and transforming her life.
Her stories introduce the shoe model, an eight-step approach designed to assist women with the first steps of discovering who they are and forming a deeper connection with themselves. By defining their values and core beliefs, establishing boundaries, finding their voice, and embracing change, they will have increased confidence to step into a more authentic life.
Workbook
Deep inside, your true nature is trying to emerge and shine your light. Are you ready to reclaim your authentic self? Shoes That Fit Her SoulTM Workbook uses an imaginative eight-step shoe model to outline the essential tools needed to raise self-awareness, elevate self-esteem, and develop courage and clarity about your future.
An Eight-Step Approach – learn why defining who you are is so important for feeling aligned and moving ahead in your life. Each of the eight shoe steps introduces you to a new layer of emotional growth to navigate your journey with a fresh identity and limitless possibilities.
Effective Techniques – get inspired by positive affirmations, creative activities, and insightfuljournal prompts that are based on self-reflection, mindfulness, and other methods to practice self-awareness. Having a deeper connection with yourself builds confidence, invites meaningful relationships with others, and develops courage to take more risks.
All You Need is YOU – if you’re having trouble getting unstuck or just need to change directions for a fresh start, this workbook will help guide you on a path to reclaim your power and embrace all of you. You just need to take the first step to find the shoes that fit your soul.
Digital Workbook
Available this Fall, 2025.